1. How do you resolve an argument?
2. Do you often say things you regret later during arguments?
3. Can you validate each other when you disagree?
4. Do you work to find a mutually satisfying resolution when an argument is over?
5. Do you feel overwhelmed during arguments?
6. How fast do you re-establish connection after an argument?
7. Do you keep in touch during the day?
8. Is sweeping issues under the rug a habit in your relationship?
9. Do you often hurt each other’s feelings?
10. Do you ever bring up past issues in your current arguments?
11. Can you share your deepest fear with your partner?
12. Do you feel comfortable talking to your partner about anything about their behavior that bothers you?
13. Do you think that your communication has improved over time?
14. Do you feel that you don’t always understand your partner very well?
15. Do you feel the need to mentally prepare yourself before talking to your partner?